Hayim and Rayah

Hayim came to “Global Match” two years ago. He was 55 years old widower with two children, a 10 year old son and an 8 year old daughter. He wasn’t looking for love, he honesstly didn’t think he would ever find it again. But he wanted his children to grow up with a mother and felt that he owed it to them to start dating again.  He signed up with My Global Match and hoped to at least find a nice person to share his life with. Romance was not at all on his radar.

Rayah signed up for our service at the same time. She is a 48 year old psychologist who had never been married and had given up on findng her soulmate.  She really wanted to have children, but thought it was a distant dream for her at this point in her life  She signed up for our service as a final attempt.  All she wanted was to find a life-time loving partner “Someone to watch TV with at nights, someone to go out for dinner with, once in a while”, as she said

When I introduced Rayah and Hayim, I thought to myself “they’re a good fit. They have the same world view.” I strongly felt some unexpected surprises were waiting for them

On their first meeting Hayim was a bit jaded and told Rayah that he didn’t want to waste any time on romantic dates and  nights out. He she suggested that she meet his children. If they’d get along, he would pursue something with her. They would take it from there and see.

Three months after their first meeting, I recieved a letter in the mail. I hadn’t heard from Rayah after their fourth date.  I assumed everything was going well because I usually speak to my single clients every week.

I was right. Love had found both of them. The letter was from Rayah writing about their wonderful romance.

Coincidentally, one night almost two years later I went to a movie with my husband. In front of us there was an elderly couple who kept cuddling and kissing. When the movie ended and the lights went on, there I noticed them. No other than Rayah and Hayim, who were quite happy, like school kids in love. I turned to them and introduced them to my husband as my friends. They asked us to join them for coffee, I said it’d be our pleasure.

During the evening they told me about how the first year was difficult and frustrating. All the problems they had in communicating with each other and his children. They told us about his ex-wife’s family who criticized her every step and move. And it took time for the children to get used to the situation, to understand and accept Rayah as a mother.

Rayah told me that Hayim means the world to her. His kids compensated her for not having children of her own. During the first year his good heart, wisdom and sensitivity made her fall in love with him. He saw the dedication, sacrifice and love that she lavished on his children. From sad and nervous children they became happy and confident. This made him fall in love with her to the utmost.

They smiled at us and admitted “this wasn’t love at first sight, but this love will last forever!”.

We were so happy for them, and we all decided to stay in touch and get together more.

On our way home my husband (who’s not involved in my business) said to me “Wow dear, you did it big time, good for you!”.

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